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Robbinsville: The Brooklyn of NJ?

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Robbinsville: The Brooklyn of NJ?

Robbinsville: The Brooklyn of NJ?

Brooklyn used to be thought of as a place where tough guys come from.  “I’m from Brooklyn!”  If you said that in the voice of an Italian mobster, you’re not the only one.  Yet today, Brooklyn is a far cry from its former self.  The borough now conjures images of skinny jeans, beanies and thick-rimmed glasses.  Regardless of whether you’re a hipster-hater or not, Brooklyn’s renaissance is an undeniable model of urban revitalization.   Though Robbinsville is a distance from New York, it’s easy to see some parallels to such a reinvention. 

I’m a lifelong resident of Robbinsville, NJ.  I was here when it used to be Washington Township.  I remember as a kid, peering out at a vast sea of dirt from the back seat of my mom’s old Nissan Sentra, wondering what in the world they were building where Centro now stands.  As a member of the last Robbinsville class to be exported to Lawrence High School, I can remember being teased that we Robbinsville kids were all farmers.  Seems ridiculous, I know.  But we all got pretty excited when they put that Taco Bell in, didn’t we? That can’t be a good sign. 

And there are questions that frequently cross the minds of Robbinsvillians which can be revealing about our quaint little town - 

Will we ever get a grocery store to fill that Marrazzo's-size hole in our hearts? 

Will it be a Trader Joe's?   

Why is there a fourth drug store going up?

Is it still Catherine's Birthday?

Or perhaps you’ve wondered why we’re still constructing more city-scape store fronts when a quarter of them are still empty?  Maybe you’re like me and dreamed up the possibility of a Starbucks in Town Center.  Or better yet, a Chipotle. 

Let’s face it, Robbinsville has had a sort of identity crisis over the last two decades.  Are we a farmer’s paradise?  Surely not.  At least, not anymore.  We’ve transformed.  Like a phoenix, nay, a raven, rising from its own smoldering ashes.  We are up-and-coming, evolving and building ourselves into something we can all be proud of when we try to explain to people where Robbinsville is.  We’ve made some changes, but is our metamorphosis complete? 

Not too long ago, on our first date at Centro, my girlfriend and I found ourselves laughing hysterically at our town’s new, self-branded slogan:  She pointed out the sign across the street, “Robbinsville: Be at the Center of it All.” 

In a town lovingly referred to as “The bubble,” such a statement seemed ridiculous and yet affable, in the way a heavy-set, unattractive man might introduce himself as an underwear model to an attractive woman.   It’s kind of pathetic, but cute and likable at the same time.

A year or two ago I lived with a roommate in Foxmoor, both of us lifelong residents of Robbinsville.  I was a substitute teacher at Robbinsville Schools at the time, and my roommate, Brent, taught English at the high school.  When we would have friends over from out of town, we half-lovingly and half-jokingly referred to Robbinsville as "the Brooklyn of New Jersey.”  This was especially audacious since some of our friends actually lived in Brooklyn.   Joking about Robbinsville is like teasing a younger sibling;   you can make fun of Robbinsville if you’re in the family, but we get pretty defensive if an outsider has something to say about it.

“The Brooklyn of NJ," we called it.  Our friends would laugh, and yet, even they appreciated its charm.  As much as we were joking and poking fun of our hometown, there was a part of us that was undeniably serious about our hyperbolic statement.  Robbinsville, as much as it drives us crazy to lack the amenities some towns take for granted, is a unique town of great character.

We may not have a grocery store.  And we may lack some name-brand stores in town center, but damn-it, we’ve come a long way. 

Ever go to DeLorenzo’s?  It’s a pizza-Mecca.  Ever go to Centro on a Friday night?  That place is bumpin' but still keeps it classy. 

Have you sat at the Town Center Lake with a sandwich from Dolce and Clemente’s watching the sunset?  Nothing’s better.  Just be careful, the geese can be aggressive.    Ever go to Ernie’s?  Ernie’s is indescribable.  Really, I’m not even going to try to describe Ernie’s.  It’s a little bit like trying to describe the Mona Lisa.  You just have to see it for yourself. 

Sometimes I walk my dog late at night in Robbinsville (you’ve probably seen me) and I feel completely safe.  Heck, I usually leave my car door unlocked because I feel so safe in Robbinsville (good thing you don’t know which car is mine).  

And how about the people?  The people are great. 

Robbinsville is a family town.  No doubt about it. 

Back when I used to work at Marrazzo’s in high school, I’d see neighbors, friends, coaches and the like, all happy to be running into one another.  Marrazzo’s was the sort of central plaza of our town.  A meeting place where people gathered for 50-cent hamburgers.  That sounds like something out of the 40s, not the 90s.  But really, there was something magical about those 50-cent hamburgers! 

Even though we’ve had some losses (RIP Marrazzo’s), we’ve gained so much, and we’re picking up steam.  I think we all know, even though we may criticize it sharply at times, that Robbinsville is a special hometown.  It may be hard to describe why it’s so special to those who haven’t experienced it.  It may be hard to understand how it can be so inconvenient at times and yet a sort of suburban, small-town paradise in another sense.

So next time you hear it or see the sign:  Robbinsville: “Be the Center of it all.”  Allow yourself a loving chuckle, but don’t be surprised if a few years from now Robbinsville comes to be known as “The Brooklyn of New Jersey.” 

 


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My name is Brandon Rasmussen and I’m a Realtor.  If you are thinking of buying, selling, or renting a home I can make it simple and stress-free.  Give me a call or text at 609-651-5167.  Or shoot me an email at brandon@rasmussenhomesnj.com.


Other articles you may enjoy:

·         4 Reasons You Haven’t Bought a Home Yet

·         5 Benefits to Staging Your Home

·         5 Rights You Didn’t Know You Had as a Renter

·         5 Reasons Your Home Hasn’t Sold Yet

·         6 Tips for Staging Your Home

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4 Reasons You Haven't Bought a Home Yet

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4 Reasons You Haven't Bought a Home Yet

4 Reasons you haven't bought a home yet

 

1.       You want everything

Sometimes we become so intense about finding our dream house that we forget to be realistic.  If you have a long laundry list of specific features you want in a home, don’t be surprised if you can’t find a home that has exactly everything you’re looking for.  Of course, you may get lucky and find that perfect home, but if you don’t, try to remember that you can always alter parts of a home to make them your own.  If a home checks most of your boxes, but it doesn’t have those granite countertops you want, well that’s something you can easily alter.  Be careful not to cast a home to the wayside if it doesn’t meet all the requirements at face value.  Ask yourself if you would be able to make simple updates after a move-in to make it your dream home.

 

2.       You’re waiting for that "spark"

This may come to some as a shock, but houses are not people.  They don't have souls.  (Unless you believe in animism, in which case skip this point, because it doesn’t apply to you.)  When you think about your future home you probably do more than picture yourself in it.  You can probably feel the emotions that the very idea of “home” evokes.  As we shop for that home, it’s very easy for the shopping process to become an emotional one.  We want to feel that instant “this is the one.”  Kind of like you see on that TLC show about the wedding dresses.  Sometimes the bride breaks down in tears as if they’ve reached wedding gown-nirvana.  On the other hand you see some brides that come in and they’ve over romanticized what it will feel like to find that dress to the point that it is almost impossible for the reality measure up.  Or, like finding that special someone, we can easily psyche ourselves out if we over romanticize what it will feel like with this person.  You may find yourself passing someone up very special because “the spark” isn’t there on the first date.  This can easily happen when finding a home. 


We are searching for the space where a significant portion of our lives will happen.  And so, we become so acquainted in our imagination with the joy that will ensue in this place, that when we step inside it don’t get butterflies, we wonder “where’s the spark?” 


I’m all about trusting your gut, but it’s important to consider that this type of approach may be a trap.  Now, even if houses were people, consider this: some people fall in love at first site and fireworks are going off and its like something out of a movie.  Other people think rationally and think wow this person offers a lot and the love grows over time.  Buying your “dream” house is an emotional decision but don’t let your desire for that instant spark keep you from deciding on a great house.  And after all, it’s not necessarily the house that makes a home special, but the people and interactions inside it.

 

 

3.       You’re a maximizer

In the age of instant information we have a wonderful supply of inventory available to us, and that’s a good thing.  Gone are the days of flipping through the Real Estate Book.  But, think about how your perspective might be different if you didn’t have the internet to find a home.  I imagine that people would feel a whole lot more in love with the homes they liked.  With the internet, you might find a home you really like and instead of thinking “Wow, I’m so lucky to have found this!” you are thinking “well I like it, but there might be something better.”  In psychology, they call this type of thinking maximizing.  I have to admit, I’m one of them. But let me attest personally that this attitude can actually set you back in some cases.  Some people just make a decision and stick with it without an overly exhausting search.  Some people, like me, can’t even make small purchases without finding the best possible option via extensive research.  They exhaust all of the options until they’ve found the best possible choice.  But the funny thing about these contrasting types is that studies show that the person who makes a quicker decision tends to be happier with it when compared to the maximizer.  Don’t get me wrong, you should search hard for the right home, and it’s a decision to be made with great care and due diligence.  However, if you’re obsessed with using the internet and think there’s always something better no matter how much you like a house, then you may just be a maximizer.

 

4.       You’re closed-minded about neighborhood

Sometimes we absolutely know where we want to live and aren’t willing to compromise on that, and that’s fine.  When it gets tricky however is when the location that you’re dead set on becomes unnecessarily restrictive. When this becomes a recurring issue, you may want to consider another nearby location which is going to give you more of the features you're looking for.  Another important idea worth considering is to examine why you really want to live in that area.  Are you committed to Robbinsville for the school system?  Or do you really want access Princeton’s restaurants and culture?  Well you may or may not be able to compromise for a nearby town depending on what your reasons are, but it's worth making that clear for yourself.


When you know what you want and why, it can be empowering and helpful.  Just make sure you don’t needlessly limit yourself until you see what other locations have to offer. 

That’s not a knock against Hamilton.  It’s a lovely place.

That’s not a knock against Hamilton.  It’s a lovely place.


I hope you enjoyed this article buying a home!  Please share it with your friends, your family and your dog.

My name is Brandon Rasmussen and I’m a Realtor.  If you are thinking of buying, selling or renting a home I can make it simple and stress free.  Give me a call or text at 609-651-5167.  Or shoot me an email at brandon@rasmussenhomesnj.com.


Other articles you may enjoy:

·         5 Benefits to Staging Your Home

·         5 Rights You Didn’t Know You Had as a Renter

·         5 Reasons Your Home Hasn’t Sold Yet

·         6 Tips for Staging Your Home

·         Robbinsville:  the Brooklyn of NJ?



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